Pondering Our Next Assignment

I really like being a military wife. I think it's cool to be able to live in a bunch of different places, places that I'd probably never see otherwise. But now we have to start thinking about what place will be the best for us for the next assignment. There are no guarantees, of course, but hopefully Rob will be able to guide us to a good place. We've come to the realization that Ben is definitely going to need to be in special education for a good portion, if not all of his student career. I don't see any evidence of him improving enough to be able to go to a regular elementary school. It's frustrating, because everywhere I look I read all sorts of stories about children "coming off the spectrum" (becoming "normal") after being diagnosed autistic, but I know in my heart of hearts that that just doesn't seem to be in the cards for Ben. He's going to need a lot of help probably for the rest of his life. Everyone claims this thing or that thing helps autistic kids, but frankly I'm getting worn out. I just want Ben to live his life and enjoy who he is, learning as much as he can handle. I'm tired of thinking about what the cure is. I hope they figure out what the cause is so that autism can be stopped, but I think the "cure" seems to be different for everyone. I'm just not seeing the great results I've hoped to. Today I had to get Ben early from preschool because his teacher called and said he wouldn't stop crying. By the time, I got there, he was fine, of course. He has no fever or illness, but the kid can't tell anyone what's bothering him, so he has no choice but to cry. Of course, now that he's home, he's been happy as a clam. Go figure